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I
have grown, over the decades, to hate cleaning house. When I tell Peggy that I
hate cleaning house, she says that there is a lot that she hates about her nursing job,
but she has to do it, and so it is that I have to clean house, so I might want
to work on being less whiny about it. Hearing this helps me tremendously, but I
invariably forget and have to be reminded a few times a year. I can’t say that
she seems happy to remind me, but I trust her to do it, and she has never let me
down.
By
the way, have I ever mentioned that Peggy can’t find her way around town after
25 years of living here? Directions to the most basic destinations are as
mysterious to her as are the pottery patterns of the Zhou Dynasty, but Peggy’s mind
isn’t just steeped in mystery, it’s drowned in irony. For example—and in
regard to her not knowing directions—Peggy always wants to drive when we’re
together. Most of the time, I wouldn’t care who drove, but I can’t relax when
she’s driving because as soon as I think that, surely, she knows to turn right just
the other side of the Alaska Bush Company Gentlemen’s Club, she doesn’t turn
right just the other side of the Alaska Bush Company Gentlemen’s Club, and we
have to go back. It’s also true that her driving scares the
bejesus out of me, a fact by which she seems much amused.
Peggy
has other, shall we say, features, that I might allude to while I’m at it.
Peggy is intimidated by credit card scanners, so she gave me the job of making
sure she always has cash in her billfold. Why she is intimidated by credit card
scanners, God only knows (said the atheist with the curly horn), but she generally avoids shopping partly for this
reason but also because all she ever wants are buttons, and she can get those
from her button cronies who act like pusher/druggies would act if pusher/druggies
were addicted to clothing buttons instead of heroin. Peggy is also intimidated
by airplanes and spiders. If she’s not worried about an airplane falling with
her, she’s worried about one falling on her. Her idea of hell would be eternal entrapment in a burning airplane filled with panicking tarantulas.
Peggy
is going away tomorrow for four days. I will be happy, but I would be just as happy
if she stayed home. Peggy says it hurts her feelings that I don’t suffer
when she’s gone. Peggy also says that she too would like to be alone
sometimes, but she can’t because I never go anywhere. This hurts my feelings because of the way she used
to bitch when I spent months at a time traveling all over the country having
sex with other women. Now she’s bitching because I never go anywhere?! I told
her that, look Peggy, I’ll give you some time alone; I’ll put a tent up in the
backyard, and you can stay out there all you want. When I went out to put the
tent up, she wouldn’t let me back in. Peggy is a lot harder to get along with
than any woman has a right to be. I often tell her that if a beautiful and
generous rich woman comes along, she can kiss her marriage goodbye, but she
just laughs.
